Ontario Divorce Education Centre
- Be clear about your intentions. Do not send mixed messages.
- Use neutral language and do not blame.
- It is best to be prepared for an angry response.
- Be prepared to discuss temporary solutions so you have enough time to figure out everything on a final basis.
- It’s a lot to take in, so do not expect to figure everything out immediately.
- It can cause stress for everyone, so give time to your spouse if it would help in the long run.